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Ending A Bad Date
The guy that you have fancied for ages has
asked you out on a date and you've spent all
day getting ready. Then when he turns up he
looks like he's been dragged through a bush
backwards and that is just his hair. He is
wearing a tatty t-shirt and an old pair of
jeans while you are all made up. It's to
late to get changed so you leave with him
anyway. Where does he take you? Yes you`ve
got it to your local pub where he spends
half the night talking to his friends and
the other half talking about them. Then to
top it off he takes you for fish and chips.
The whole date was a complete disaster. He
is not the guy you thought he was and you
don't know why you even fancied him in the
first place.
So what do you do when it is time to say
good night? How do you avoid the end of the
date kiss? And how do you let him down
gently without being to harsh?
It is obvious you have no intentions of
seeing him again so don't beat about the
bush just get straight to the point.
Sometimes being nice just doesn't work.
Being too nice to a guy that you have no
interest in can lead to mixed signals giving
them the wrong idea and sometimes unwanted
advances.
First off - thank him for a nice date and
explain that he is not the type of person
you are looking for. If he asks for a second
chance and asks you to go on another date
with him; you must be firm with him. If you
don't want to have any kind of relationship
with the guy then you have to make it quite
clear.
Don't tell him that you want to be friends,
unless you are really serious about being
his friend. If you don't want to see him
again make this very clear and avoid any
contact with him at all. Even giving into a
good night kiss will send out the wrong
signals and that is the last thing you want.
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